There have been some big changes, here in our little corner of the world. Some of them I have addressed, most of them I have not.
There have been many reasons for keeping mum…. Most of them boil down to not wanting to hurt anyone. Because I am a big believer in not hurting people, especially the people I love.
What’s worse is watching them hurt, and not being able to help, or to offer anything, or to say anything…
So, dear Readers (all 6 of you…) here is the Reader’s Digest extremely condensed version of the events.
Without going into the whys and wherefores, The Other Woman and Mr Awesome are no longer together. There are Reasons. And I won’t go into them here, because it’s none of my business nor is it the business of anyone other than the two of them.
But there has definitely been a hole in our lives this summer, as we process this development and figure out what it means for us. And I don’t know if this is related, or not, but I don’t really hear much from the Boyfriend anymore. This makes me very sad, and I miss him a lot.
And that’s pretty much it… There has been a lot of really awesome things happening recently, but there has also been, consistently, this shadow, a feeling of loss and the inevitability of time moving on.
“Oh-blah-di, oh-blah-dah, life goes on, blah…” Indeed.